Do we ever know what men are really thinking? I gave up caring, I am having a hard enough time understanding my own thinking to usually worry about this but I was talking with a fellow doctor today (for almost two hours) on this subject and I have been intrigued ( I will not mention his name due to the fact that he told me if I did he would fire me, but he has a full head of hair and he is a guy, that is enough for me). I am writing it here before I forget what I have learned and hopefully to help someone who really does care to try to understand men. Women, if you are married this will be a good conversation starter and the other half of women are not married, this will be a good conversation starter. LOL.
The doctor who should not be named said the first thing about understanding men, is to quit trying to understand them. He said women are over sensitive sometimes and men are not. Men....usually are not thinking to hard about anything at all.
When men say, "I love you" and it starts to sound like a robot. It does not mean that they do not love you. It just means you love a robot! hahahahah JK. If you do happen to get a man who puts emphasise on the words "I love you", then hold him close, and never let him go.
Men are happy to go shopping but do not expect them to get anything other than what is on the list. If there is a sale on fingernail polish (my favorite thing) he will not get it for you unless it is on the list. Too much thinking is involved in this process. It just wont happen.